ENFJ Strengths and Weaknesses

Your ENFJ strengths and weaknesses may become more apparent when you interact with other personality types, as the differences are contrasted.

Persuasion

ENFJs can be very persuasive. Their communication skills, reading the emotions of others, and charisma allow them to convince most others to do what they wish.

Empathy

The ENFJ is naturally tuned in to the thoughts and feelings of others. The ability to empathize, seek out the underlying motivation, and connect with those around them provides the ENFJ great insight into how to communicate best to ensure their audience will hear the message.

Benevolence

Driven by altruism, the ENFJ frames the world in ways that seek the greater good. They are often kind, compassionate, and will seek to understand those who have wronged them instead of holding a grudge.

Reliability

ENFJs are mission-focused, and once that mission has been identified, there is little that can stop the ENFJ from completion. The desire to support and help others manifests as a reliable partner, friend, colleague, or another person that can be counted on.

Self-neglect

A hallmark characteristic of this personality type is acting in service of others. The challenge facing ENFJs is spreading themselves too thin, helping everyone else, and not addressing their own needs or desires.

External Approval

The ENFJ finds joy in helping others, but these endeavors can hurt their psyche if their efforts aren't appreciated, desired, or effective. The ENFJ may rely too heavily upon the opinion and feedback of others.

Impractical

Many ENFJs have a firm and formed moral compass. They may be unwilling to compromise on their principles when others don't share the same views. This overly idealistic perspective can act as an obstacle to taking concrete action.

Conflict Avoidance

ENFJs tend to shy away from conflict. They prefer harmony and group consensus. However, if conflicts are avoided altogether when small and manageable, they may become large and unworkable.