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Enneagram 3w2 - An Overview of The Charmer

Summary of what is an Enneagram Type 3w2?

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Type 3s are industrious, energetic, and competitive, driven by need for recognition and goal completion. Type 2s are empathetic, caring and driven by wanting to b loved, needed and appreciated. In the Enneagram, Type 3s are adjacent to Type 2s. Therefore, some Type 3s share a few of the behavioral tendencies of Type 2s. These are known as Type 3 with a Two-wing, or Type 3w2.


What is an Enneagram 3w2?

What is a Type 3 wing 2 on the Enneagram?

Type Threes are known as "Achievers" because they are always looking for ways to achieve, complete goals, act diligently to achieve these goals, and to let others know of their achievements. Type Twos are known as “Helpers” because they are always looking for ways to help others, support and protect them, acting with empathy and care to create harmony and avoid conflict. A two-wing adds these qualities to a Type Three personality. This means that a type 3w2 will aim to achieve in a competitive and energetic manner, but will focus mainly on gaining the acceptance of others. Meaning that their biggest desire is to be worthy of the love of others, and their biggest fear is to not have it. This can make type 3w2 powerful individuals but also troublesome. As a result, type 3w2 are called "Charmers".

However, unlike "Achievers", a Two-Wing may struggle and attempt desperately at getting others to like them. They will seek praise from others in these moments to reassure them, and may lose they own personal needs as they attempt to impress others. This can mean that "Charmers" find difficulty in not constantly showing off and making a scene - even when it is evident that this is not wanted amongst a group dynamic.

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Type 3w2 are often energized by getting others to appreciate their successes and accomplishments.

 

Type 3 Primary Enneagram type
3w2 Type three with type two wing

Enneagram 3w2 Types are energetic and industrious like Type Threes, but are image conscious and engaged with others.


Remember, an Enneagram 3w2 is still a core Type Three, so they are generally diligent and energetic people. They make decisions based on their emotions and feelings and desire the recognition of others. However, the two-wing allows them to be more empathetic and people-focused.

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Type 3w2 Type Three Wing Two

Here are some of the key traits to a Type 3w2 personality.

  • Seek success and accomplishment
  • Vigilant of their social appearance
  • Worried about being unworthy of affection
  • Diligent and inherently industrious
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Did you know: When unhealthy and stressed, Enneagram 3w2 Types are prone to demand praise from others at the cost to integrity and harmony.


Type 3w2 Fears and Desires

A list of the core fears and desires of Type 3w2

Enneagram types have fears and desires - things to avoid and things to seek.

Fears

Things Enneagram 3w2 Types should avoid

Core fear: having failed or disappointed those whose attention they care most for

  • Having a bad reputation
  • Struggling to complete a goal set by others
  • Feeling as if they must always entertain others

Desires

Things Enneagram 3w2 Types should seek

Core desire: Being recognized as the center of attention or social group

  • Achieving the goals they set for themselves
  • Harding work for other people
  • Being praised for their help

Type 3w2 Strengths and Weaknesses

A list of the main Type 3w2 strengths and weaknesses

Every Enneagram type, even types with wings such as 3w2, has strengths and weaknesses. These are personality traits that help and others that hinder.

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Type 3w2 Strengths Type 3w2 Weaknesses
High diligence to achieve their goals Struggle to accept failure from themselves or others
Confident and self-aware Overly competitive, and at times unnecessarily so
Hard-working and industrious Seek praise from others too aggressively
Able to easily connect with and charm others Tendency to be too invested on self image
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Note: The two wing helps offset some of the overt individual self-interest prevalent in core type threes by giving them a focus on the interests of others. But they are prone to being stressed when in a situation with which they are not the center of attention.


Data: Distribution Between Core Type 3 vs Type 3w2 vs Type 3w4

Is one wing type more common than the other?

Some Type 3s do not exhibit wing traits significantly enough to say they have a wing. When this happens we say they are a 'core' Type 3. Not all Type 3s have a wing, as we see in our research results below.

Figure 1: Type 3 and their wing types

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What this chart shows

This chart shows that 91% of Type 3s do not have a wing type, in other words they are 'core' Type 3s. And 6.8% of Type 3s are 3w2 and 2.3% are 3w4.

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  • 1. n=27985
  • 2. Population: global
  • 3. Dataset last updated:

Type 3w2 Career Choices

What are some of the common career choices for Enneagram 3w2?

All personality types are naturally drawn to certain careers over others. Here we have compiled a list of three sectors that Type 3w2s have a proclivity for and three that are likely to clash with a Type 3w2 personality type.

Career choices

  • green tick Entrepreneur
  • green tick Actor or presenter
  • green tick Pilot
  • red cross Shopkeeper
  • red cross Teacher
  • red cross Author
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Understandably, this career list is not prescriptive. There are lots of Type 3w2s that have happy and successful careers which do fall into the 'not recommended' category, but these cases tend to be in the minority.


Famous People With Type 3w2

Which famous people are Enneagram 3w2?

These famous individuals have the personality Type 3w2. Are you also 3w2? Do you recognize any personality similarities you can relate to?

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Barack Obama

American politician who served as the 44th president of the United States from 2009 to 2017.

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Taylor Swift

American singer-songwriter.

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Arnold Schwarzenegger

Austrian-American actor, former bodybuilder, and politician who served as the 38th governor of California.

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Cristiano Ronaldo

Portuguese professional footballer, widely regarded as one of the greatest players of all time.

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Thomas Edison

American inventor and businessman, developing devices for electric power generation, sound recording and mass communication.

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Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex

American former actress and member of the British royal family.

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Nayeon (TWICE)

South Korean singer, and oldest member of the K-pop group Twice.

 

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Have we missed anyone?

Our research is always ongoing so please let us know if you think we've missed a noteworthy Type 3w2 worth highlighting.

 


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Chloe Yarwood, MSc

University of Chichester, Advanced Applied Psychology

Chloe Yarwood, MSc in Advanced Applied Psychology from University of Chichester. Specialist in personality type theory and developing valid personality questionnaires.